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Who is The Disciplinarian ?
My name is Alan and I live in East Anglia.
Spanking of Ladies and Coples is my speciality.
For over 15 years I have been involved in dealing out corporal punishment to ladies - spanking - on a consensual basis.
The advent of the Internet enabled me to offer my services in a new medium which has proved very successful
My Background in Spanking
I have been a member of the 'Scene' for many years and used to visit spanking clubs regularly. here men would meet with up to six paid 'subs' who would then have a scenario produced for them by the group organiser. It may be nurses smoking/stealing drugs or school scenarios. I soon found that many of the men participants had little idea what to do except spank each girl with their hand, strap, paddle and cane and even then how hard and where to hit had to be spelt out to them. I found the exercise artificial and after I had chatted to severalof the 'subs' I decided I would prefer a 1-2-1 session with 'M'.
This was more expensive for me but I could perfect my own style this way. I then discovered that it was almost impossible to understand what was happeneing without switching and being spanked myself. I am not a natural switch but soon found that my time with my 1-2-1 sub had fired me to produce a website which would herlp and advise. I went on visiting 'M' every month for nearly two years until a rail strike prevented me from continuing and she recommended 'K' who was nearer.
'K' visited every month for a further two years and all the time I was getting better in my style and more accurate in my spanking and my website was improving in style and content. Talking to these ladies had also helped me to have an insight into their needs and problems.
I soon found that I was receiving emails from all over the world with requests for help and from the UK with requests to visit me.
About 12 years ago I started with ladies visiting for spanking
Why should you come to me?
Once I started I found that there were many ladies who wanted to try corporal punishment but, for various reasons, mainly their inability to find a confidential service, had given up.
Once I was introduced to them and had discussed their wants their interest was re-aroused.
Why were they interested?
There were various reasons including:
They had been spanked when a child when they did wrong and now needed the security of this form of punishment when they did something they considered wrong as an adult.
They were senior professionals who had the ability to hire and fire but could not be called to account when punishing juniors. This was their way of assuaging their guilt when they felt they had been unjust.
They had never been smacked on the bottom or punished with a slipper, strap or cane but wanted to try the experience.
They knew they were submissive but had never had the chance to test this side of themselves.
They have a partner who is not interested
They wanted to ask their partner to spank them but thought it would be a good idea to undergo the practice in 'cold blood' before raising the question.
They had experimented when younger and enjoyed it but now wanted to extend their experience beyond hand-spanking and the paddle - possibly to the strap and eventually the cane.
Some clients enjoy "role-play" as part of their experience. There is more about this in our What Happens pages. - For some ladies reading spanking stories gave them thoughts about what a spanking, particularly an erotic spanking, would be in reality rather than fantasy.
- For more about this read our pages on "Sensuous and Erotic Spanking"
and "Punishment Spanking Examples"
Why not send an email to alan@spanking-stories.co.uk or call me on 07854 153499 so that we can discuss your wishes further. Remember everything is confidential and done with discretion. It is also always within the limits of the client whose wishes are paramount..
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An Invitation to Ladies needing a Spanking
Whether you are a novice or experienced you should visit me for a private session. All visits are PRIVATE and CONFIDENTIAL. If you click on the picture of a BOTTOM on the left you will be taken to the special page which explains what happens.
As one lady wrote "I’ve enjoyed both of my visits to you, especially the last one and if you are available this Sunday or next I would really like to come over..........What I feel I need most at the moment is the spanking and maybe along the lines of a long (but not necessarily hard) punishment. I think the length of the punishment and feeling you are in control (by what you say and make me do) is probably more important for me than the hardness of the punishment....................
I enjoyed the more intimate touching last time we met and would be more than happy for this to happen again, if you are. It had been a couple of years since I was last touched in that way and it surprised me how different my orgasms were. In some ways they were less intense than they use to be, but in some ways more enjoyable."
Read our pages on "Sensuous and Erotic Spanking"
and "Punishment Spanking Examples"
CALL 07854 153 499 or send an email to alan@thedisciplinarian.com (ladies or couples only please) |
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